A Story of Unexpected Kindness: When a Student Let Me Sleep on Her Dorm Floor

During 2006, I made a trip to Canberra for a medical school interview. My plan was I would book accommodation when I arrived, yet upon reaching the city, a major event was taking place and all the budget hostels and affordable lodging had no vacancies.

As a visitor from the city-state of Singapore, the idea crossed my mind maybe I could just sleep at the terminal – but quickly found that airport, not like the one back home, closes around the clock. Not knowing quite what to do and growing worried, I caught a city-bound bus and started wandering in the direction of the casino, thinking I might spend the evening in a place operating all night. Admittedly, this plan at my peak to succeed at the admissions interview the next morning, however, being a cash-strapped student, a pricey hotel was out of reach.

We could all use more individuals with such compassion.

It seems I seemed confused as a young woman saw me loitering in downtown and inquired if I was OK. I recounted the story of my accommodation crisis and right away she said I could sleep on the ground in her student dorm at ANU – which was perfect, as that’s where my interview was scheduled for the next day. She even offered a meal: one of the stuffed baguettes she had from her evening job. I had access to the bathroom and somewhere safe and secure to spend the night.

In retrospect, it’s clear to me the significant risk she took as a woman allowing a man who was a complete stranger stay in her room. Back then I was in my own unawareness and not even thinking about things like that. Today, as a parent, I’m amazed she offered that help – and remain incredibly thankful.

I didn’t end up go to the Australian National University, and I didn’t meet her again, yet her memory has stayed with me her selfless deed of generosity. I hope the universe has returned her act of kindness many times over. We could all use more folks like that woman.